每逢六月端午，家家團圓，吃粽子划龍舟，又不禁讓人懷念起戰國時代，有志難伸而投汨羅江自盡的愛國詩人屈原。或許從現代人的眼光來看，當時的屈原若能建立良好的人際關係與圓融順暢的溝通技巧，他大可不必投江，以死為諫呢。
俗話說：「做事容易，做人難。」台灣慈濟功德會證嚴法師亦曾說過：「人際關係是最難的一篇文章，事事要無我，無執，方可好好作下去。」古今大智慧者也曾經提醒我們：「疾病的原因，有物理的、化學的、情緒的、靈性的四大方面，而人際關係不良會影響內心負面的情緒，造成身體上的疾病。」這些年來，尤其是網路世代的來臨，我們所生活的這塊土地，因為人際關係之間的疏離，互信的薄弱，每一個人為自己築起一座座的防護牆，貪婪、自私，道德淪喪的醜態現象，充斥著整個社會。若能重視人際關係，發揮人性的光明面，並能重新認識人類基本的倫常關係，未來社會才可能成為一個美麗祥和的世界。
因此，「人際關係與溝通」這門課的設計，就是試圖以最淺顯而輕鬆活潑的方式帶領大家一同來探討人際關係的基本概念與意涵，「自我」與人際關係的行為模式為何？影響人際關的因素有哪些？中國有無特殊的人際關係行為模式，其特質為何？而吾人要如何從家庭、職場以及日常生活方面做好良好的人際溝通，並建立圓融的人際關係。希望能藉此課題，共同探討並學習「做人」的道理，放下自己的立場，用「真誠」磨練心靈，奠定人際關係的基石，以「寬恕」化解衝突與對立，以「慈愛」廣結善緣。走出「孤獨的學術人」的性格，擁抱人群，擁抱世界，讓人生變得更有意義，也更多彩多姿。Every June Dragon Boat Festival, every family gathers in a circle, eats rice dumplings and rows dragon boats, which makes people think of Qu Yuan, a nationalist who has aspirations to throw himself into the Miluo River in the war era. Perhaps from the perspective of modern people, if Qu Yuan could establish good international relations and smooth communication skills at that time, he would not have to jump into the river and make a decision to die.
As the saying goes, "It is easy to do things, but difficult to be a person." The Taiwan Philanthropy and Merit Association's stern jurist once said, "International relations are the most difficult articles. You must be self-reliant and self-hard, so that you can continue to do it well. "The great wise men of ancient and modern times have also reminded us: "The causes of diseases are four major aspects: physical, chemical, emotional, and spiritual, while human beings Bad relationships can affect negative emotions and cause physical illness. "Over the years, especially as the Internet generations, we live in this piece of land because of the gap between human relations and the weak mutual trust, everyone is I built up one after another of my protection walls, and the storm of greed, selfishness and moral integrity filled the entire society. Only when society can be regarded as a beautiful and peaceful world in the future can society become a beautiful and peaceful world.
Therefore, the design of the course "International Relations and Communication" is to try to lead everyone to explore the basic concepts and implications of international relations in the most vivid and relaxed way. What is the behavioral pattern of "self" and international relations? What are the factors that affect people? China has no special human relations behavior patterns. What is its characteristic? And how can we do a good job in international communication in family, jobs and daily life, and establish a comprehensive international relationship. I hope to use this topic to explore and learn the principles of "being a human being", let go of your own position, use "true sincerity" to soothe your heart, lay the foundation for people's relationships, resolve conflicts and oppositions with "forgiveness", and integrate them with "charity" Good at it. Get out of the character of "alone academician", embrace the crowd and the world, and make life more meaningful and colorful.
(1)王淑俐，《人際關係與溝通》，台北：三民書局，2010
(1) Wang Shuli, "International Relations and Communication", Taipei: Sanmin Book Bureau, 2010
| 評分項目 Grading Method | 配分比例 Grading percentage | 說明 Description |
|---|---|---|
| 上課出席上課出席 Attendance in the previous class |
40 | Class participation, including in-class discussion |
| 平時心得報告平時心得報告 Daily experience report |
30 | Small write-up and report |
| 期末考期末考 Final exam |
30 | Final Exam |
